Ahhh the old adage of opposites attracting.
Purists will stick to it meaning boy and girl attracting, since you can't get anymore opposite than that. Sorry to say but I dont see it working that way. Today its not just about being opposite. Everyone knows that I stick to my motto of ' Love is Love', no matter who you are, your background, your sex. Anyone got a problem with that, then........ well whatever I dont give a crap. Too many people see love being that of a carnal nature. How dare they do that? Love stretches across the universe. If two people can find it, then celebrate it, be happy that it was found, smile and gaze at its beauty. How dare you put your rules, rules that man made, on it? You have no right, no matter how much you try to convince yourself of that.......... the You I speak of is people, not any one person.
Ah I getting off track AGAIN, lol
Today its not about being opposite....... how can two people that are complete opposites ever spend a lifetime together? Opposite is the wrong word...... I think Complementary is a better word.
Two different sides come together to make a whole. Some aspects will be so different that they seem opposite. Those differences make up for what each other lacks. Externally it may be impossible to see. It is up to the two people. They should know or at least find out how well that person works with them. Dont ignore red flags. dont see things that aren't there, Obey your 'gut'. You know when something is comfortable, when it feels right, when it scares the living daylights out of you (.....you are terrified to lose it or you know what it is and even the thought of losing it prevents you from taking it... wow I dont think words can describe it...)
This can happen for friends and lovers. Lol I had to go through a stupid marriage to realise that. Hmph !!!
Oh well !!!
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